Okay, so you’ve got a massive big goal and you’re feeling some resistance and fear.
So, how do you tell if that sign from the universe that you shouldn’t do it or is it just plain old fear and procrastination?
I don’t know, let’s talk about it.
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Lucky Bitch Video Transcript – Fear or a Sign from The Universe?
Okay, so I’ve been there so many times. You’re really close to your goal and suddenly the universe is throwing all these obstacles in your way or you’re feeling really resistant and scared about it.
So, what’s going on?
Now sometimes it genuinely is a sign from the universe. Maybe the universe is keeping you from making a mistake, getting the wrong thing, dealing with people that you shouldn’t be dealing with, etc. etc.
But how do you tell the difference?
Here’s what I do.
It really does, I think, come from your gut.
I’m trying to show you my gut instead of just my boobs. But you know when there’s something that you know you really want to do and let’s take public speaking for example, like speaking at a conference or doing more podcast, being more visible.
Now you might be feeling lots of resistance from that like lots of fear, you don’t want to pitch people; you know like obstacles are coming your way in terms of dates for the conference or whatever and this is just an example.
But there’s still that feeling in your gut that you really want to do it.
It’s like a little bit of excitement mixed with fear. Now that isn’t a sign from the universe when those obstacles come up that you shouldn’t do that thing because sometimes you just have to break through those to get to the other side.
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Now what is a situation where maybe the universe is telling you not to do it?
Now a perfect example, I had an interview booked with somebody that I didn’t want to speak to and it was just like their brand wasn’t aligned to mine. I felt icky every time I saw their name come up and I was just like uggh, I was feeling so resistant about it. I wasn’t fearful about it.
I just didn’t think that that was a good fit and my gut was telling me no, no, no.
So, for me, that’s where the answer is coming always comes from, my gut and it is okay then just to go, you know what? I don’t want to do that. It’s okay for you to quit, to say no even if you’ve said yes etc.
What I do is I say it to the universe and I say, “Universe, if this is not for my highest good, please cancel it, delete it. I don’t want to do it anymore.”
That person cancelled the interview and I didn’t have to do it.
So, I want to hear from you.
How do you tell the difference between plain old fear and procrastination and the universe actually telling you no this is not for you?
I want to hear your tips. Do you feel it in your gut? Is it something you meditate on, etc. etc.?
I would love to hear what you do to figure out that difference.
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Have an abundant day, bye.
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